Noswizard wrote:
All very true!
Despite there being many millions of people on this planet, there are no 2 the same in even most respects never mind all, so you can't judge one person by the actions of another, never mind judge ALL people by one persons actions.
However it can get hard to think positively about some situations when you've encountered a number of bad outcomes from similar situations.
This applies to business matters just as much as it applies to personal matters but just how many times you give a situation the benefit of the doubt and ignore your previous bad experiences is a difficult one to call.
If you ignore your previous bad experiences and take the positive route only to find it turns out badly again, you start to think you're being taken for a fool. However if you use your bad experiences to pre-judge the outcome of a new situation and avoid taking the chance of it working out well, you can still end up a fool, because you missed the one good opportunity in your life. Like I said, it's a difficult one to call and a fine line either way.
Now getting back to women for a minute, although this does apply to some men as well.
Most (if not all) of the women I've known, seem to think they are mind readers and judge people on that basis, but from my own experience I've found their 'mind reading' (guess work), to be just as often wrong as right, so for anyone who 'thinks' they can judge why another person has said or done something, let me assure you, there is ONLY one person who knows why something has been said or done and that's the person who said or did it.
Any claims to the contrary are pure guess work.
This thread is turning into much of what I was wanting it to be, so come on guys let's have a few more of your life experiences.
Regards
I must say this is dead on point. I have been trying to explain this but you seem to be better at doing so.
To add to your point. Its called "crying wolf"
I need a real man in my life!
I need a man to take care of me!
I need a man that i can talk to about anything!
I need a man to spend time with his kids!
I need a man that respects me!
I need a man that knows how to treat a lady!
In my past i have travel the world and back so therefore i have met women of all walks of life. They all seem to sing the same old song, having all the same demands. Those at which they are no longer willing to do.
I need a real man in my life!
(I don't think they know what a real man is)
I need a man to take care of me!
(They are not willing to cooperate on doing the things you need to do in order to take care of them)
I need a man that i can talk to about anything!
(Why they are not going to tell you anything worth talking about; their girl friends gossip is too valiable for them to share it with you, they need to have private phone calls, and if that were a man he is probably cheating)
I need a man to spend time with his kids!
(All they want to do is go shopping; granted i am a man that will go with them but they get carried away)
I need a man that respects me!
(We i am not sure what they mean about this because they sure as hell don't know what the meaning of the word intells.) this is a subject that needs its own thread
I need a man that knows how to treat a lady!
(They get so used to the way the other man threated them, they forget their own demands. They always get out the car before you can open your door; they are the first ones thru the door. They don't wait for you to place the chair under them while they take a seat. The point is they first have to consider their role as a lady. You wait in the car until i get around to your door. You allow me to reach the door first so i can open it for you. You stand there until i get the hint that i am suppose to pull and push your chair for you.
Another good topic is "The Independent Women Attitude"
I dont need a men!
I can do this by my self!
Can you do this now!
If you don't kow this by now, you will never know but an indendent woman needs to stay by her damn self. Why? Because she don't need a man! Remember
I dont need a men!
(Thats until they have to fix the fence, change the oil in the car or cut the grass.)
I can do this by my self!
(Why are you telling your girl friends how lonely you get at night and how difficult things are doing it all by yourself)
Can you(men) do this now! If you don't have the time they get this attitude and attempt to find someone else that could, just to piss you off.